Walking Away can break your heart but save your soul!
- Adrija Choudhury
- Jul 17, 2024
- 3 min read
Updated: Apr 3
Hi There, I have started challenging myself to write a blog based on my experience and choices that have helped my soul feel happy and at peace. So here is a story that helps you understand the importance of walking away and surrendering.
I met someone almost 7 years back and we had instant chemistry and an undeniable connection. Just 2-3 meetings and we felt like we had both known each other forever

But as luck would have it, we were facing different chaos in life and we lost contact as we had to focus on our own lives. We never really dated then but it felt like a connection of souls.

Now jumping to June 2023, we reconnected online and it felt like we never stopped, like we have always been connected and the universe had just guided us back to each other to flow effortlessly. It was just as easy as breathing. All my friends said that we even look similar and that when they see us together, it just makes sense. And even I felt intuitively that 'this is the one.'
Yet it is now July 2024, and we stopped communicating this year, he is now on my block list and life is going on.
So, what led to that? And why did I share this story with you?
Let me tell you why, I get 1000s and 1000s of clients trying to get reading and healings to reconcile with someone from their past or someone they love deeply or someone they don't want to let go because when the connection feels magical, you don't want to let it go, do you?
I have done readings for myself too but not to find out how to get him back or how I can do more for us, but to find out how I can be my garden to stay aligned and he as a butterfly can come to that garden if he is right for me. I have taken healing too but not for reconciling, I have taken it for self-love and to pour all that love towards myself because if he is meant for me, nobody and nothing can stop it from manifesting.
But why did I walk away?
No, it wasn't because he was a bad person or something bad happened, it wasn't because I did less or he did less, it was because we were not able to receive love the way we desire and need at the moment, he was doing as much as he thought he could but I didn't feel that love reaching me and I was doing my best but he couldn't feel my love reaching him. And it was draining both of us, sometimes you do need to walk away because staying can break your soul and you will become a shadow of yourself. For once, choose yourself and put all your faith in the universe/god and let life choose you.
yes, I do miss him and love him but I am happier, at peace and watering my garden instead of waiting around and suffering. It is not about you getting down the low vibration levels to make it last but it is about letting the person reach your high vibration level and if they can't, you still attract the butterfly most aligned for you.
So, if you're someone struggling to let go, let me help you like I helped myself, take a guidance session with me for your situation, not to reconnect with your person but to find yourself and become a magnet for your desires.
You can book from the website or ping me on Insta or WhatsApp, I am here to be your guide, your companion and your mentor, if you let me.
Love and Light,
Adrija Choudhury
Hekate Guidance
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